My suggestion is, after a reasonable amount of time together, have a calm conversation with your guy.Ask him if it’s a good time to talk about something that’s on your mind.In my relationship (but maybe not yours), the best medicine in the world for intra-marital conflict is for me to be by myself, preferably with some sleep time in there somewhere. In fact, I’ve uniformly rejected every piece of relationship advice that I’ve ever been given — thank GOODNESS, because relationship advice is fucking dumb. In all the relationships I’ve witnessed from the sidelines of my longterm union, this is the one rule that has never gone away, never wavered, never been disproven.Yet when I try to tell someone who is single this rule, they genuinely never believe me.“You don’t understand.When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something executive in private equity, Dan Rochkind had no problem snagging the city’s most beautiful women.
A multipart study from Harvard University, University of La Verne and Santa Clara University researchers found that beautiful people are more likely to be involved in unstable relationships.
If he cares about you, he’ll know there’s something wrong and will want to fix it.
Acknowledge both your feelings about the label and his.
Even a person who gives bad or cheap gifts is still giving you gifts which is a form of attention which is also a form of honoring you even if said gifts are below par.
Although you didn’t state I assume that you have been giving him some gifts within your ability to do so, which means he is actively ignoring the situation.